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floozys:

floozys:

straight boys are weak and pathetic, queer girls walk into the ladies changing room and see ten women naked, do they stare? do they say something inappropriate? do they make them uncomfortable? no because they have the common fucking sense to recognise when a situation is sexual and that people deserve the most basic level of respect to not be harassed, yet here we are banning shorts and low cut tops in school because straight boys are weak and pathetic

okay i made this post this morning and it has since had eighty two thousand notes, it’s been featured on reddit, facebook, twitter i’ve been sent multiple death threats and messages that i don’t even want to describe 

and i have to apologise

i’ve seen the error of my ways

straight boys are not ’weak and pathetic’ 

straight boys are weak, pathetic and fucking annoying

*sigh*
yes, because all straight boys stare and yes, sexuality is the same for everyone and and yes, no lesbian ever stared at a straight girls chest when she had the chance to and yes, that are totally the same situations and yes, straight boys are totally evil and dumb and yeah, this totally gives one the right to reduce a person to their sex and sexual orientation AND make up offensive shit and call them weak and pathetic.

if you make a stupid, generalizing, nonsense and fucking sexist text post full of hate and ignorance, what the hell did you expect that would end up in your ask box? love? a box of chocolates? a parade of unicorn puppies?
no. just the same message you sent first, but from a different point of view and in different words. what a fucking surprise.

but, yeah, please continue to make matters worse and add a third insult in the same matter. why not? im sure thats going to make this world a better place and bring peace to everybody. *sigh*

the stupidity of the post makes me so angry and, at same time, so disappointed and resigned…

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everythingissignificant:

a real man

(TMI ahead) i “always” still wanted to when that happened because i dont care, but the last girl i was so close with that those situations arose didnt want to, so we didnt have sex.  
so what does this mean? what about telling that [the message CK is trying to get across] to the girls instead, so it would still lead to intercourse and the women/girls would be “real women”? no, of course thats not the answer, cause that makes exactly the same amount of sense, it makes to tell the same thing to a boy: none.if the boy doesnt want to hes an idiot and not a “real man”, but if a girl doesnt want to because of the same reason its ok? sounds kinda sexist, eh? yes, cause it is.the point is: both is totally ok.youre still a real men if you dont want to have sex with your gf and youre still a real girl if you dont want to have sex with your bf.
no relationship works on pressure. if there is a couple of two persons (nvm about their genders) and one person doesnt want to have sex for what ever reason there is (or actually: cant have sex for whatever reason, too), then thats TOTALLY OKAY. that doesnt mean youre not a real men or a real women nor does it mean anything else. just do whatever the fuck you want without hurting anybody.men who dont want to have sex and dont want to fuck everything all the time are still real men.
so yeah, fuck you CK.

everythingissignificant:

a real man

(TMI ahead) i “always” still wanted to when that happened because i dont care, but the last girl i was so close with that those situations arose didnt want to, so we didnt have sex. 

so what does this mean? what about telling that [the message CK is trying to get across] to the girls instead, so it would still lead to intercourse and the women/girls would be “real women”?
no, of course thats not the answer, cause that makes exactly the same amount of sense, it makes to tell the same thing to a boy: none.

if the boy doesnt want to hes an idiot and not a “real man”, but if a girl doesnt want to because of the same reason its ok? sounds kinda sexist, eh? yes, cause it is.

the point is: both is totally ok.
youre still a real men if you dont want to have sex with your gf and youre still a real girl if you dont want to have sex with your bf.

no relationship works on pressure.
if there is a couple of two persons (nvm about their genders) and one person doesnt want to have sex for what ever reason there is (or actually: cant have sex for whatever reason, too), then thats TOTALLY OKAY. that doesnt mean youre not a real men or a real women nor does it mean anything else. just do whatever the fuck you want without hurting anybody.

men who dont want to have sex and dont want to fuck everything all the time are still real men.

so yeah, fuck you CK.

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sneakystratus:

fucknomisogynymastodon:

“I mean, sure, they can get along, but he’s always gonna want something more, y’know?”
Well, sure. If he’s a huge douchebag.

People saying this fucking ruins my life. The vast majority of my friends are male and the fact that idiots even say this is horribly depressing. I’m glad I’m not friends with them. 

theres always more to this, but overall, its not wrong. theres also nothing wrong with it.it also depends on the state of society and what is seen as wrong and what not. casual sex between friends, single or not, is not something bad in itself. its always depends on the current view of society to that point. so this is also an option.
the boys usually want more sex while the girls want to talk more and be friends. so whos to say which party is right? that idea in itself is absurd to me… NOW.as a kid i always got told im wrong by society and that im a bad person because i had sexual feelings. just think of yourself having normal feelings and then telling yourself youre an asshole, a bad person and thats something wrong with you just because somebody else teached you that … mostly by women. i always tried to be a nice guy in womens eyes and be a good friend, trying to deny my sexual drive. but that let to some serious psychological life altering shit and illnesses… but hey, i was a nice guy NOT trying to get into anyones pants. everytime i got any close to a girl being with me i just ran away because i didnt want to be an assholish sex guy. how great… look at all the nice-guy medals i have in my room for not having sex or never having had a girlfriend. look how great they look in my room -.-
not the boys and not the girls have the right to declare whats wrong and what not. but dont say boys are assholes and stupid if they just are the persons they are and have the feelings they have. i also dont tell you i get depressed because girls only want to talk and how hey are egoistic because they dont sleep with me.
but for your sake… if a boy isnt attracted to a girl, for whatever reason, then there is a small chance a boy can be your gay friend you ever wanted. theres your one chance.but be aware that this is sexist and selfish, like a boy who only has female friends so he can fuck them and doesnt give a shit about them… aka: he is forcing his agenda onto the girls (sex instead of friendship) like you are trying to force your agenda (friendship instead of sex) onto boys (because not doing so makes you depressed because youre not getting what you want).
summary:both perspectives are right and NOT wrong. it does NOT depend on the gender and there is equality, if girls stop blaming boys for what they are. boys who want sex are not assholes. neither one of the genders has the solely right to declare whats right and whats wrong.im not telling you girls suck when they dont have sex with me, but then also please dont tell boys they are assholes when they want to fuck you instead of being your friend. both things are legit and totally normal, because thats the way we feel - theres nothing wrong with it.

sneakystratus:

fucknomisogynymastodon:

“I mean, sure, they can get along, but he’s always gonna want something more, y’know?”

Well, sure. If he’s a huge douchebag.

People saying this fucking ruins my life. The vast majority of my friends are male and the fact that idiots even say this is horribly depressing. I’m glad I’m not friends with them

theres always more to this, but overall, its not wrong. theres also nothing wrong with it.
it also depends on the state of society and what is seen as wrong and what not. casual sex between friends, single or not, is not something bad in itself. its always depends on the current view of society to that point. so this is also an option.


the boys usually want more sex while the girls want to talk more and be friends. so whos to say which party is right? that idea in itself is absurd to me… NOW.
as a kid i always got told im wrong by society and that im a bad person because i had sexual feelings.
just think of yourself having normal feelings and then telling yourself youre an asshole, a bad person and thats something wrong with you just because somebody else teached you that … mostly by women.
i always tried to be a nice guy in womens eyes and be a good friend, trying to deny my sexual drive. but that let to some serious psychological life altering shit and illnesses… but hey, i was a nice guy NOT trying to get into anyones pants. everytime i got any close to a girl being with me i just ran away because i didnt want to be an assholish sex guy. how great… look at all the nice-guy medals i have in my room for not having sex or never having had a girlfriend. look how great they look in my room -.-

not the boys and not the girls have the right to declare whats wrong and what not. but dont say boys are assholes and stupid if they just are the persons they are and have the feelings they have. i also dont tell you i get depressed because girls only want to talk and how hey are egoistic because they dont sleep with me.

but for your sake… if a boy isnt attracted to a girl, for whatever reason, then there is a small chance a boy can be your gay friend you ever wanted. theres your one chance.

but be aware that this is sexist and selfish, like a boy who only has female friends so he can fuck them and doesnt give a shit about them… aka: he is forcing his agenda onto the girls (sex instead of friendship) like you are trying to force your agenda (friendship instead of sex) onto boys (because not doing so makes you depressed because youre not getting what you want).

summary:
both perspectives are right and NOT wrong. it does NOT depend on the gender and there is equality, if girls stop blaming boys for what they are. boys who want sex are not assholes.
neither one of the genders has the solely right to declare whats right and whats wrong.
im not telling you girls suck when they dont have sex with me, but then also please dont tell boys they are assholes when they want to fuck you instead of being your friend.
both things are legit and totally normal, because thats the way we feel - theres nothing wrong with it.

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aboutmaleprivilege:

male privilege is “i have a boyfriend” being the only response that might actually stop a guy from coming onto you, because he respects another man more than he respects your actual opinion/lack of interest. 

"aboutmaleprivilege" is the most sexist blog ive seen on tumblr.

there are so many boys who get told “im not interested” by a lady and then just fuck off and leave. also, many girls just say it so the boys “prove” themselves to be worthy by sticking around showing how much they want the girls and are willing to show dominance and the will to break rules (thats not only common for the human species, but for a lot of other species as well).
if girls stopped going out with assholes, girls wouldnt force the rest of the boys to be assholes too. but if you do, then just stop complaining about it afterwards, lol.


on the other hand my uncle was once in a bar and was hit on by a lady, he said he wasnt interested (which was true). she kept on going very aggressively, he then said he was gay to get her to piss off (he isnt). she continued by grabbing his leg and penis trying to prove that she can turn him straight for just one night.
now imagine the rage and the notes a post would get if a guy was hitting on a girl, she said no she was a lesbian and the guy then started to grab her boobs and vagina. he probably would end up in jail… the other way around not so much.

so how about that… OH NO, GIRLS ARE JUST AS STUPID, AGGRESSIVE, RESPECTFUL AND SEXUAL PREDATORY AS WELL. WHO WOULD HAVE THOUGHT?!

also, its not really about respect for the other man. but hitting on a single lady is much less dangerous than hitting on a lady with a boyfriend cause you might just get beaten to hospital.
in addition love is the only thing that keeps most boys from wanting to have sex with another girl (otherwise they want to fuck everything, generally).
so if a girl says she has a boyfriend, he is almost sure its not that kind of game women often play with boys as their lead puppet, but he can understand that she really does not want to have sex or anything else, and than he leaves… the other thing i can think of is, out of personal experience, the respect for the couple. what if i hit on a girl with a boyfriend, she has a one night stand with me and i ruin a relationship that might have kept on going for years resulting in children?

summary:
-some girls want it that way and see it as part of starting a (sexual) relationship, cause it has been that way for millennia and is common for species with genders
-girl behave exactly the same way sometimes, which maybe is kinda new (one might say “unnatural”)
-it isnt about “boys respect boys, but not girls and therefore boys think theyre better than girls and are therefore sexist”. boys are just scared to end up in hospital and decide to leave.
-respect for the couple, not the man.

so just get your anti male and sexist blog up your ass

Who Wants to Be a Millionaire Flirt Fail (by PoisonedVideos)

welcome to sexist world. everyone thinks the girl is awesome, funny + cute. but if a guy did this, everyone would hate him, call him a pervert and try to put him into jail. its a rare thing when guys live out their natural sexuality without being condemned or frowned upon. but if a girl does it, everyones fucking happy. 

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Male Privilege Is

aboutmaleprivilege:

Male Privilege is telling me to smile.

Yes, I know it’s a lovely day. Yes, I know the birds are singing. In fact, yes, I am happy. I’m not smiling because this is my safety face. You may not be aware that women have a safety face. It’s the face that wards off certain jackasses from thinking I’m interested in having my walk derailed, as if I have nowhere to go, just because I DO think the day is lovely and the birdsong is nice and I choose to express my pleasure with all of that with a smile.

I will not smile for your pleasure, do not make demands of me, do not assume your asking me will brighten my day, my day may in fact be going along rather nicely. I choose not to smile because I have things to do and I’d rather not be bothered.

 ”Male Privilege is telling me to smile.” 

what the fuck. i hate to be rude, but this is awkfully stupid and sexist.
how is someone “telling to smile” a privilege to anybody? do you even know what “privilege” means?
its not even forcing anybody to do anything. it does not involve penises or vaginas and is totally unrelated to any gender or sex. do you also get so upset when a girl tells you to smile? no? then youre sexist. and nobody is allowed to talk to you on the street? or just humans with penises arent allowed to talk to you? or cant people talk to you about smiling, but anything else is ok? what about people who are lost and want directions? females ‘Ok’, males a ‘no-go’?
what about people trying to be nice to you? do you get offended by that? do you think they want to sleep with you by wishing you a great day and a peaceful evening? yeah, that really sounds like rapist assholes. all these nice guys are really making me need a saftey face too. god beware i encounter a girl on the street telling me that its nice wheater. i better get out my pepper spray and call the police. 
what about male humans trying to be nice to you? do you have a “safety face” for girls too? 

whaaaat is going on